- What do you tell others about where you are when swinging?
- What's Your Advice for Beginners?
- Common Newbie Swinger Mistakes
- Newbies: Who would you rather play with?
- Any Men Whose Wives Refuse to Even Consider Swinging?
- Just the facts. Need your advice.
- Trying to coach her into the lifestyle...
- Is she ready for the "real Deal"?
- MFM? ...Well you see
- Running into someone you know
- First Time - Watching?
- Oral sex and partner expectations
- How do you feel about newbs who don't swap?
- Would like to begin with Soft Swap
- Are all swinging ladies fit and attractive?
- Is my co-worker putting me on?
- Advice for the First Threesome? - Calming Nerves
- Safety Plans when meeting new people?
- Getting ready checklist for first trip to on-premise club
- Want to swing, my wife is not open to idea. Any advice?
- Meeting Someone and Going To Their Place???
- Looking for guidance and direction from others
- Do you ever help newbies
- Advice: Wife OK with fantasy, not with reality
- Is My Wife Interested in Pursuing Swinging?
- Is it wise to start with a MFM threesome?
- A question for the straight women - does how the other woman looks matter to you?
- Finding the right mix
- How do you approach a single woman "Unicorn" ?
- She is curious, I have questions
- Buyer's Remorse
- Is she ready?
- Taking the first step
- not sure where to start
- elderly couple wants to get into swinging
- should 1st experience be a man from wife's past?
- Here for Help in understanding Wife's signals.
- Forty, Fifty something women: sex with younger guy (20-something)- problem for you?
- A few unique questions ...
- What do you do when the play is over?
- When it happens should they stay the night or leave?
- We are starting today, requesting advice
- Talking to my wife
- can you start dating a man and start swinging at the same time?
- trying to get started, but wife is sexually uptight
- How do swingers address each other in a meet and greet situation
- Why does this bring of a red flag?
- Soft-swap question
- Starting things off with a BANG!!
- What if there is an "awkwardness" after
- New Guy Here...With Familiar Dilemma
- GF and I are going to the club for the first time, BUT...
- advice for a first timer
- wondering if this is right for us?
- Where we stand...what we plan...any thoughts?
- Swinging and "Karma"
- MMF: From Fantasy to Reality
- How Long Did It Take to Be Comfortable With the Lifestyle?
- Married couple - but not to each other
- Was very Curious. Now VERY GLAD I did'nt go through with it...
- me my wife and my nephew
- Did we take a step forward?
- Newbies wanting to go to a convention...good idea?
- How to be more open and confident with my sexuality?
- Opening the conversation more with spouse
- how do you find real people?
- Oh this will be fun, Dilemma with the Husband!
- Lifestyle cruise question
- Going to a club for the first time.
- Questions from a newbie couple---
- We only want to play together, including communicating with other couples.
- Forming emotional bonds first time out:
- Question (about swinging definitions)
- Geographic concerns ;)
- Condom use
- I don't even know what to title this - jealousy rant?
- Should I leap into swinging at this time ?
- Advice for a First time
- Curious about negotiated infidelty/swinging
- Why get into swinging?
- No kids?
- How do you go about finding a guy for a threesome?
- Seriously confused about my wife
- First Step
- How to politely say no?
- Not sure what to do, need some advice
- Swinging to help build my confidence and better our relationship
- My wife is confined to a wheelchair, should we swing?
- Complete stranger or steady relationship - what's better?
- First time....with an Escort!
- Swinger traits (good and bad) to watch for?
- First time FMF 3-some w/straight ladies...how to proceed?
- My wife and I differ on a couple things...any recommendations?
- A question for the Ladies on the the board
- Me and gf thinking about swinging
- Wife wants "spontaneous" but I'm considering "arranging" something...
- What if the first few times are the best ever sex?
- Curious... confused
- Learning and would like to get some opinions
- New to this with overprotective past
- Regret, it works both ways
- What did your man say?
- We're ready to try it! But have some questions ...lol
- very new and full of questions
- Any wives like to see their men in action?
- What if bringing up swinging ruins our marriage?
- Am I weird or what? (Being picky about playmates)
- First club visit
- Looking for insight
- Another first time club visit question
- threeway
- Is there a place out there for people like us, as "naturists" or soft swingers ?
- New and Taking it Slow - Suggestions
- Given the greenlight to play alone
- "Ultra-light" swing questions
- Is swinging for us?
- Web Camming with other couples
- Taking the lead (Is there an interest for couples our age?)
- Perplexed!!!
- Brand new couple looking for advice
- the 2 of us aren't agreeing...help me figure this out
- Nervous About Upcoming Meet
- New here and need advice
- Overwhelming Response
- Porn is the answer?
- Are we playing with fire?
- Seeing your wife with another partner
- Does she or doesn't she?
- seeing your man with another woman
- New to this so how do we read the signals
- just nervous
- Advice from WOMEN. How did he get you into swinging?
- Soft swapping perhaps?
- We would like to ask a few questions at this point
- Curious/Question
- Interested but not sure how to start ?
- I've been asked to give it a try
- PLEASE, I need advice communicating with husband as well as potential partners.
- Newbies Getting Started
- How do I get my husband into it?
- Looking for some advice...
- Psychologically, Why Are We Soo Turned On By Swinging?
- Randomness of a newbie
- Can you give your BEST Opinion and Advice?
- Overcoming insecurities?
- please define these for us: TAME, MODERATE, WILD
- Need advice on becoming more approachable while at Hedo II
- Watching & Being Watched
- Considering trying a MFM
- Any Advice on how to help us would be greatly appreciated =-)
- We're back. With some questions
- I'm just curious as my wife won't reveal much of her past experience.
- I am considering swinging, and would like some advice.
- That first conversation
- New at this and unsure
- new/curious/unsure, but Hi and howz it going.
- hi guys (how do I convince my wife?)
- Newbee Seeking Info
- Questions from Ohio part two (mind games and jealousy)
- Hey Everybody, wifes been giving hints. Any suggestions ?
- Newbies seeking advice (on how to find a guy)
- Swinging just for sex OK?
- Having a hard time...
- How do we get started safely?
- In brief, how do you balance swinging and daily life?
- Now what?
- How to go to next level?
- New and Scared
- Wife having moral issues
- How do you know????
- Just Joined
- New here....cautious!
- Too good to be true?
- Our first experience--coming soon!!! Nervous!!! Any advice???
- Hi from Chicago - New With Concerns
- New couple wondering if ready for an entry level of lifestyle.
- Is wife ready to soft swing, if she....
- Is anyone married to a 100% str8 girl?
- Advice in supporting wife (and self)
- Safety?
- Our little secret?
- Hi from Dallas.
- The First Date
- What was the primary reason you got into swinging?
- Question for the women
- Need help on response to wife
- should we swing?
- Slow Starting... Input Please...
- Fantasy vs Reality
- New and scared
- Cruise Ship Swinging
- Help! Im a single male, how do I respond?
- planning for our first time.
- Does swinging equal sexual liberation?
- Curious but nervous newb cpl
- How to Find a Single Male?
- Sex after swinging
- Cheating Wives
- Virgin - any options?
- new to the lifestyle....
- Need Soft Swap Advice
- To dip our toes in, or jump in?
- New member
- New, excited, and a little nervous
- How to find a "unicorn"?
- advice? club this wkend for 1st try- says body paint/blacklight. what to expect??
- Going to Break the Ice-Finally
- Wife and i talked about soft ...
- Ready to try the lifestyle, but we have different speeds...
- Husband Wants Open Marriage/I'm Scared
- New to swinging
- should i continue to ask about a 3 some?
- First time !!!! for me at least.
- It could've Happened
- Getting my girlfriend back into the game, Input appreciated
- Thinking of testing the waters on the lifestyle
- How to Get My Girlfriend Interested(was: Hello from Delaware)
- Fantasy vs Reality
- help
- Young Couple
- best way to find single guys for new couple
- Should We Start Getting Our Feet Wet or Wait?
- Need some advice...
- First Time Swinging
- Is wanting to start younger poor motivation?
- Don't want to feel left out
- New to the site full of questions
- Threesome - good idea?
- New to Lifestyle, Trying in Vegas
- An update from a newbie
- New guy with some questions
- First gf everthat encourages...and my mind can't help but race with dirty fantasies!
- Hotel party question
- How to take that first step
- Jealousy
- Thank you all
- Newbies with question about clubbing with friends
- Just curious
- intensely conflicted--any thoughts?
- How do I know it's the right time?
- Long-time friend of fiancee wants to join in.
- Drinking and swinging
- Oh... Were BRAND NEW with NO EXPERIENCE…need LOTS of Advise
- Downsides of a FMF threesome?
- thanks...I have made up my mind
- A touch overwhelmed....
- A little personal confusion
- Curious how others have addressed this
- wife was interested (even brought up the idea) now isn't
- what about 1/2 bad experiences?