We love to come up with a few games to play. I just came back from my neighbors back yard, they are away, got naked, jumped in their pool, ran around their back yard naked. Laid down on their longe chair and rubbed myself to orgasm. My husband watched from our window and recorded it all. He is over there now and I am taping him, he is now masturbating, oops, all over their pool deck!

What games do you play when you are by yourselves?

Closetswinger said in another thread: "I have found that swingers are a VERY ACCEPTING, non judgemental (in most ways) group of people." And I have certainly found that to be true.

And there's something about being with other swingers that is so liberating. For most of my life, anyway, I had to hide the fact that I wanted a lot of sex with a lot of different partners, as if it were something shameful. But when I'm in a group of swingers, this side of myself is not only warmly accepted, it's actually seen as something good.

As I tell my partner, her insatiable libido is one of the things I love about her.

Hello, my wife and i are new to this, and we have discussed it many times, our main thought is having a threesome with another male, only female on male no male on male, my question is this, we are both madly in love with each other we have been together for 10 years, married for 9. I am bassically looking for guidance about were to begin, i am currently deployed and cannot do anything right know, but am planning on doing something upon my return to the states. My wife and i differ on a couple of things, she believes that we should have a completely open marriage but she is not willing to share me, no big deal. I think that i have that part taken care off. What i would like to know, is what are some of the steps that we should take in setting our rules and our guidlines, and what are some things that we should do to start out, were do we start i guess is another question. Does anyone have any recomendations?

Thanx Jmc77

So most you you have followed some of our posts know that we just hit our 1 year mark back in May and everyone picks up funny stories when you swing right?

So one of ours starts off as "so how many couples have you run out of the lifestyle?"

Yes, it's meant to be in jest and only after you have had a few drinks and everyone is having fun but the surprising responses are actual numbers. Four, one, :rofl: We have actually had two couples delete their profiles after we slept with them...were we that bad :lol: They just closed shop and disappeared :EG:

(just in case your wondering our thoughts on why, couple one - we think their family found out and they deleted their profiles and repented, lol. Couple two - no real clue).

So how many people have just up and deleted their accounts after an encounter with you? :D

My wife has agreed to having a 3-some with myself and another lady. Neither of the ladies are bi, any hints on how to proceed with this to keep everyone "involved" or busy?

We are relatively new to the "swinging" lifestyle...and are LOVING it!!!! We are swinging/swapping solely with one other couple who are also our best friends..and everything is amazing...Our sex life since starting this is out of this world...that being said we thought we'd join so that we have a discreet outlet for thoughts and questions!

I'm on pelvic rest for pregnancy. I find out on Wednesday if we can enjoy eac other again. It's been 2 long months...yes the other stuff I can do with him is going on but the birthday is coming up. I want to be able to spice it up but if I'm not able to do much except what i've been doing to him I need some ideas. I was thinking about the strip clubs in the area but I hear they are kind of lame plus not cpl friendly...but you never know...

Here's a case which makes it clear how the vanilla world sees people like us:
Manitoba judge steps down after nude photo complaint

I love this comment on one of the stories about this case:

"Is it just a lawyer or justice-worker thing that nude photos are taken of your private life as stated by law professor Karen Busby (Manitoba judge in nude photos takes herself off bench, Sept. 1)? None of the people I know have ever had private photos taken of themselves."
Poor things!

We are a couple who is new to the lifestyle. He is up for pretty much anything that I would want to happen. We have not had an experience "together" with swinging. Would love to meet new people in our area and see where it leads us. We are interested in meeting couples and single women. Who are like minded. We have 5 children 3 of who are still at home so discretion is key with us. Hope to meet some pretty fabulous people.

My former husband used to go on and on about swingers. Did not seem interesting to me but like so many things with him, I'm not sure he had an accurate understanding. Might, if nothing else, learn what he was up to. You never know, he might even be a member here.

Hello all!

We are new to the Forum. We both have some experience but are soft swap and still exploring our boundaries.

We ar eenjoying reading The Swinger Manual and looking forward to learning more here.

BOMBDUO

So my wife and I met a couple through Swing Lifestyle that isn't an actually couple. They are friends with benefits (more benefits than friends) and swing together. We were just wondering if there is anything we should keep our eyes peeled out for, if it's a good idea/bad, that sort of thing. Thanks!

I am a 35 year old male.I am recently divorced and have become very interested in being with another couple.I am 100% straight.I have no idea how to act on this fantasy.From what i have read on most sites i have been on single males are not really welcome in the clubs.(never been so i have no idea if that is true) And i have no idea how else to contact a couple to see if they are interested.I think i am a fairly attractive guy.I am 6`2 180 . Can anybody give me some pointers on how to go about this.Your help will be greatly appreciated.Thanks in advance

i am a 24 year old single male who just got out of a serious relationship. i am looking to start getting back into the swing of things just to have a little bit of fun while im single. my ex gf and i used to attend swing parties last year after she talked me into it and we both had a blast meeting new people and learning new tricks. so i am looking to get back into it, but this time as a single male, to see how it goes. i just found this site and thought i would introduce myself and see what there was going on and about. i am always looking to meet new people or throw my opinions out there if ever needed.

Terrifying Wii-Mote Add-On Proves Sex and Nintendo Don't Mix -Gamma Squad

Meet the Mojowijo, the latest advance in teledildonics (and yes, that actually is a word.) You don’t need a Wii, just the two Wiimotes, which communicate your pathetic attempts to make love to the person on the other end via Bluetooth.
We’re not sure this isn’t a scam; it’s still in “private beta” and all we’ve seen are computer renderings. But if this isn’t real, eventually it will be, and it will be terrifying.